just read fifi blog and her most recent post was meaningful to all of us. maybe all of us should take a look at the article.
and this ,ade me thought of the thursday trip.

thursday i accompanied keng yang friend to my friend house. they were doing a report on lion and dragon dance. so i thought of my friend. then they started asking question.

then suddenly my friend said he actualy has thought of quitting and giving up his "guan" which means like troupe. he said that all these years he has practically tasted his life, bitter, sour, sweet. he was even betrayed by his very own friend.

he and my another friend. actually their relationship is tong men shixiong. they are of same status. then there was another person. this three can say is "fu lu shou" the three immortal. then this september, they participated in the 13th ngee ann city lion dance competition. they got into the final, but during the final, the lion head which is my friend, he fell, my another friend was the drummer. then the lion back, when got back to the head home, he practically threw everything then went off. before he go he told the head that he's quitting, and said that staying here is useless, and said that they would not be famous and would not have any chance to compete again.

so i think that people are like this, whereever there are good things or benefits they will switch. in society, whichever company offer higher pay or incentives or provide more benefits, people will flock to interview. but what makes us, what shapes the society, it was the people. you see those loyal employees, they sacrificed more then half their life fighting for the benefits of the company, then when they are old, they are the one who get fired or retrenched first. this thing i've seen much more then anyone.

infact, i have been betrayed and been used by my best friend, details i do not wish to talk much la. so i can see. but i just smile and laugh,
while you guys tell me what can i do, revenge? that's seen that 'm bad, you should know somebody are jerk, they will picture things as though they are being bullied? find them, plese, i save my breathe, so what else can i do.
ai ya, actually i'm not a person who only remember hatred. so just forget it. haa


peaceful life