lost my third family member this year, my grandma(1926-2009)

17th nov, my uncle went down, only to find my grandma giving out CO2 and not taking in any oxygen. immediately they asked for her to be discharged, and it was lucky for them to make that decision. she hanged on and finally passed on at 17.55, half an hour after she reached home.

many of us were by her side, when she passed on and taking in her last breath, she opened both her eyes, just to see us for the last time.

this gave me 2 weeks of leave which i don want......

i remember the last time i have a hearty conversation with my grandma was shortly after my grandpa passed away, that day she make tapioca cake for me, and tt was probably the last time she make something for me to eat. in the past, whenever she got extra dumpling, she will give us, now it can onl be turned into memories.

take care, we will miss you